Category Archives: Loneliness

Eight Months – And No, I’m Not “Over” Him Yet

Posted on June 20, 2017 by lindasnyder

You’ve been gone almost 8 months.  Much of the time I can pretend that you’re away, or at work or something, and not think about what really happened.  That way I can block the pain. But too often, and usually … Continue reading →

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The Slam of the Day Does Not Define You

Posted on May 26, 2017 by lindasnyder

It’s been one of those days… Aside from the usual day to day stuff that can put one in an irritable mood if one lets it (cold drizzly rain, too much to do, not having the correct paperwork with you … Continue reading →

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He Died of Depression

Posted on May 20, 2017 by lindasnyder

I’ve been commenting on a Facebook thread in which the original poster wrote: The quickest and easiest way for [me] to start a flame war in the comments section? By writing down [my] real opinion about the use of “medication” … Continue reading →

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No Group Meeting Saturday, May 6

Posted on May 6, 2017 by lindasnyder

There will be no group meeting Saturday evening, May 6th as the facilitator has another commitment.  Hope to see you next week! My apologies for any inconvenience or difficulties this may present.  If you are in immediate need of help … Continue reading →

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You’re Not a Victim for Sharing Your Story

Posted on April 23, 2017 by lindasnyder

  This quote is a complete blog in and of itself.  Thank you to Alex Elle. ***************************** For more information about The Warrior Project – soon to be a drop-in and counseling center for those affected by suicide and/or suicidal … Continue reading →

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Six Months

Posted on April 21, 2017 by lindasnyder

Six months.  My wonderful, brilliant, talented husband has been dead for six months. The death certificate deemed it an “intra-oral gunshot wound”.   Simply put, he killed himself. Someone just commented on a blog that he would never suicide because … Continue reading →

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Tuesday, March 21st Support Group Canceled

Posted on March 21, 2017 by lindasnyder

  The Tuesday night support group will not meet again this week.  The facilitator is still ill with pneumonia.  It’s our hope that we’ll be back up and running on Saturday evening for that group. Thank you for your understanding. … Continue reading →

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If You Have Suicidal Thoughts…

Posted on February 26, 2017 by lindasnyder

To my friends, acquaintances, and anyone out there who is fighting suicidal thoughts… Please, please talk to someone.  Get help. Talk therapy.  Medications.  Physical therapy.  Rehab.  Whatever it takes. Do it. I know you don’t know how to formulate the … Continue reading →

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If You Are Thinking About Suicide, Read This First (reprint)

Posted on January 13, 2017 by lindasnyder

http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/ “Reprinted with permission. Suicide: Read This First (http://www.metanoia.org/suicide) was written by Martha Ainsworth based on work by David Conroy, Ph.D. To talk with a caring listener about your suicidal feelings, in the U.S. call 1-800-SUICIDE any time, day or … Continue reading →

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Coming Out of My Bedroom

Posted on January 6, 2017 by lindasnyder

After John first died, and after all the flow of visitors stopped dropping in, and after my daughter went back home to California (nearly a month later), I pretty much holed up in what was our bedroom. My big house (9 … Continue reading →

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