Category Archives: Grief

Support Group Meeting Space – It’s Looking Great!

Posted on December 10, 2017 by lindasnyder

Good morning! Those who have been following my blogs here, on Facebook and on MeetUp know that the past few months have been tough for me… not only am I dealing with the tragedy of my husband’s suicide last year, … Continue reading →

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Kicking Down the Door

Posted on November 30, 2017 by lindasnyder

I tried both the kicking the door down and picking the lock on that horrid door. But the demons had had their nightmare grip for too long. I am so sorry. ***************************** For more information about The Grief Warrior … Continue reading →

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His Belongings Still Belong

Posted on August 6, 2017 by lindasnyder

It’s been 9 1/2 months and I haven’t moved John’s clothing from our closet, his winter jackets from the mudroom, his LL Bean hiking vest with all its pockets from the sofa in the sun room where he left it, … Continue reading →

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I Didn’t See It Happening…

Posted on August 1, 2017 by lindasnyder

With the antiques shop & used book store John and I started and that I’m now running on my own, my social work job, my volunteer activities – and my frequent grief-stricken meltdowns – I don’t do much that’s particularly … Continue reading →

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Eight Months – And No, I’m Not “Over” Him Yet

Posted on June 20, 2017 by lindasnyder

You’ve been gone almost 8 months. Much of the time I can pretend that you’re away, or at work or something, and not think about what really happened. That way I can block the pain. But too often, and usually … Continue reading →

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The Slam of the Day Does Not Define You

Posted on May 26, 2017 by lindasnyder

It’s been one of those days… Aside from the usual day to day stuff that can put one in an irritable mood if one lets it (cold drizzly rain, too much to do, not having the correct paperwork with you … Continue reading →

Posted in Coping Skills & Resiliency, Death & Dying, Grief, Loneliness, Suicide | Tagged Grief, nightmare, pain, Suicide, Warrior Project | Leave a comment

He Died of Depression

Posted on May 20, 2017 by lindasnyder

I’ve been commenting on a Facebook thread in which the original poster wrote: The quickest and easiest way for [me] to start a flame war in the comments section? By writing down [my] real opinion about the use of “medication” … Continue reading →

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No Group Meeting Saturday, May 6

Posted on May 6, 2017 by lindasnyder

There will be no group meeting Saturday evening, May 6th as the facilitator has another commitment. Hope to see you next week! My apologies for any inconvenience or difficulties this may present. If you are in immediate need of help … Continue reading →

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Contracting for Safety i.e. a No Suicide Contract – Does It Work?

Posted on April 27, 2017 by lindasnyder

Back in the 1990s and earlier, “contracting for safety” was very common. Someone would present as potentially suicidal and a mental health worker would gain either verbal or written agreement (a “no suicide contract”) that the person would not … Continue reading →

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You’re Not a Victim for Sharing Your Story

Posted on April 23, 2017 by lindasnyder

This quote is a complete blog in and of itself. Thank you to Alex Elle. ***************************** For more information about The Warrior Project – soon to be a drop-in and counseling center for those affected by suicide and/or suicidal … Continue reading →

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